A genuine Thai lady will be lacking in confidence and reserved at first until she gets to know you. Give her time to do this.Her family and friends and may be her neighborhood community will almost certainly know she is meeting you and that creates excitement and interest. She will feel others are watching her and may even feel her morals and status will be judged. She will want to commit to you but in doing so will want to be sure you are going to engage to her on the other hand she may lose her status and esteem from family and friends. Be sensitive and understanding to that. Abandon behind your thoughts of two consenting adults having sex. That’s a breakdown of western values and not one shared in Thailand with unimpeachable ladies of families. Be gentle in your approach; smile a lot to make her feel at ease with you. She wants to be a Thai bride as much as you want a Thai wife but she will want to be sure you are reliable and truthful too

Remember you are in her land not yours. Thais are very proud of their country, cultures and language too. Recognize they speak Thai in Thailand not English. It will be you that does not speak Thai not her that does not speak English. Do not make her feel uncomfortable about what English she knows. Do try to communicate with her in Thai and make as much effort to do that as she is in trying to communicate with you. It may be great for her to learn it later but don’t let her think it is a big problem now. After all you might have only just met!!!!

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